"In every human being there rises a light that reaches straight to heaven. And when two souls that are destined to be together, find each other, their streams of light flow together and a single brighter light goes forth from their united being."
-Ba'al Shem Tov (18th Century Jewish Mystic)

Welcome to our Jewish, Interfaith, Intercultural Wedding Blog!

Personalized wedding rituals from around the globe celebrating the Art of Ceremony and Celebration.

Mazel Tov and Congratulations!
Here you'll find inspirational thoughts, creative ideas and resources for planning personalized Jewish, interfaith and intercultural weddings.

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We look forward to sharing our discoveries with you.
Yehudit Steinberg M.Ed

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Durme Durme with Eliyahu Sills and the Qadim Ensemble

Here's a group that touches my heart strings. Eliyahu Sills and The Qadim Ensemble.

"Qadim" means "ancient" in Hebrew and Arabic. It also means "that which will come" in both languages. It's a powerfully appropriate name for the group of Arabic and Jewish musicians who work with visionary multi-instrumentalist Eliyahu Sills


Durme Durme a Sephardic lullaby in ladino [Hebrew Spanish language].

Lyrics:
Durme, durme hijiko de madre,
Durme, durme s’in ansio y dolor;
Sienti joya palavrikas de tu madre.
Las palavras di Shema Yisrael
Durme, durme hijiko de madre,
Con hermozura de Shema Yisrael

Translation:
Sleep, sleep, mother’s little one, free from worry and grief
Listen, my joy, to your mother’s words, the words of Shema Yisrael
Sleep, sleep, mother’s little one, with the beauty of Shema Yisrael

Check out Songs of Qadim on CDBaby. V'ahavta is exquisite. http://www.cdbaby.com/cd/eliyahu
New Album Eastern Wind: http://www.eliyahusills.com/music/music.html

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Kosher Gospel Rockin' in the Temple

Its been cold and rainy here in Oakland CA for the past week and there seems to be more rain
on it's way for the next four or five days. Here's a little dancing your prayers music by Josh Nelson to wake
you up and keep you warm. I experienced him live last year at the opening night of the Jewish Music Festival,
here in Oakland. He got us all rockin' in the aisle. If you love this sort of thing, do not miss him when he
comes to your town. You'll perk up and be inspired.

May your light continue to shine bright and strong this holiday season.

Happy Hanukah everyone!

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Catholic Priests and Outdoor Weddings

Recently a bride asked the question: Can we have a priest perform our outdoor wedding ceremony?

It is possible to have a Catholic Priest perform your outdoor wedding. We plan these all the time. We're planning a co-officiating ceremony day after Thanksgiving with a Roman Catholic Priest and a Rabbi on the patio of Kohl Mansion in Silicon Valley CA.

* Some of our couples choose a non-Roman Catholic priest. They are very flexible with the content of your ceremony and you can personalize the ceremony to fit your style. There is usually no requirement to meet for couple's counseling.

* For those couples that want to have a Roman Catholic Priest to perform their outdoor ceremony, it is a little more difficult to find the priest, but we have done this a number of times in the last few years. Also, there is paperwork involved that takes a couple months to process and you must meet with the priest several times prior to your ceremony.

We're based in the San Francisco Bay Area or Sonoma Napa Wine Country and have a number of Catholic Priests on our referral list.

For more information on finding a Catholic priest to perform your outdoor ceremony contact Yehudit@asacredevent.com

Thursday, August 27, 2009

Chinese Wedding Tea Ceremony


This video of a traditional Chinese Wedding Tea Ceremony shows in detail
the serving of tea from the couple to their respective elders.

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Chinese Wedding Blessing

Monday, August 24, 2009

Jewish Wedding Ceremony Playlist on Itunes


Many of our couples ask us about the music for their ceremonies. Yehudit has selected a variety of different instrumental pieces that would work nicely in the prelude [prior to the ceremony while guests are being seated], processional [walk down the aisle, and recessional [leaving the ceremony]. The most popular songs during the wedding have a couple instrument versions harp, piano, flute, guitar and strings. All of these songs can be worked in with other Classical pieces which is ideal for an interfaith ceremony.

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Friday, July 24, 2009

Elopement and Intimate Wedding Packages in San Francisco and Napa Sonoma Wine Country

Jewish Interfaith Wedding Network in partnership with Sacred Events announces their new service providing customized elopement and intimate wedding packages. They specialize in working with Jewish, Interfaith and intercultural couples

Intimate weddings and elopements focus on the basics of getting married, your love and commitment to each other. Northern California offers a wide variety of wedding locations to hold your private ceremony and at Sacred Events, we specialize in finding just the right custom package for you and your partner.

Enjoy your wedding in a private intimate setting surrounded by your closest friends and family. Customizable options available to create a wedding that speaks to your personal taste and style. Your event is expertly planned by Sacred Events' professional ritual designer and wedding consultant, Yehudit Steinberg and attended to by a team of highly-qualified event professionals.

Basic Elopement packages include:
- Picturesque ceremony location
- Services of a personal wedding coordinator
- Interfaith minister or Rabbi
- Personalized Wedding Ceremony designed to your specifications
- Flowers: Bridal bouquet, Boutonniere
- Basic Ceremony set up
- Photographer
- Photos posted online
- 2 to 10 guests

To begin planning your elopement or intimate wedding, please contact us to discuss how we can be of service to you.

Recommendations for Jewish Interfaith Wedding Network

"We couldn't have asked for a better interfaith ceremony planning experience than what we encountered with Rabbi Gershon and Yehudit. Since we were planning our San Francisco wedding from LA with limited time to actually travel up, all of the planning was done by phone and email. They were so organized ... When the day arrived, we were thrilled with the dynamic that the Rabbi had with the minister, who co-performed the ceremony and happened to be my dad!"

Jennifer [bride]
Ceremony Venue: Corinthian Yacht Club- Tiburon, CA
Los Angeles, CA

“Yehudit was a wonderful addition to our wedding planning. Yehudit helped us put together our wedding service, finding both a Priest and a Rabbi that would marry us. Everyone at the wedding thought the officiants must have known us for years, the tone was so perfect. Yehudit kept in touch with us through out the planning, setting up meetings with the officiant and she worked so well with our wedding planner, making sure both our Jewish Ceremony and the main dual ceremony went perfectly. We could not of asked for better memories or a better send off into marriage. Yehudit has continued to keep in contact with us, and we feel her continued blessings with each message we receive. We thank her for her hard work and for making our wedding ceremony the one that we wanted and continue to cherish.”

Top qualities: Great Results, Personable, High Integrity


Andria Ruben McCool [bride]

Fairmont San Francisco,CA


We were happy to get a rabbi, but we didn't know that we were getting a sage!

Jessie [father of the groom]
Canlis Restaurant Seattle, WA


"On Saturday evening May 20 at the Calistoga Ranch you performed a most beautiful wedding service for out son David and daughter-in-law Kathy. We are so greatful for your desire to honor both their traditions and to bring both families into a circle of love, community and unity. You most certainly fulfilled your mission of addressing the beliefs and values of both the bride and groom and their families. We deeply appreciate your willingness to listen to our wishes as presented to you by our dear friend."

Evelyn and Doug [mother and father of the bride]
Calistoga Ranch-


"I can only tell you that it was the best decision we made for our wedding, Rabbi Gershon and his wife Yehudit really care about the details and they go the extra mile to make sure you enjoy your event.

Also, the wisdom of the Rabbi is very impressive, I had well travel friends from different religions and they enjoy the wedding a lot. The wise words of the Rabbi really made an impact in our ceremony.

Our wedding needed to be translate to Spanish because of the majority of the guest, and even with a 3 language wedding (English, Spanish and Hebrew) the Rabbi was able to maintain a good pace for the ceremony and make it very enjoyable for everybody.

I will recommend you 100% the Rabbi and like they said a picture is better than 100 words I attached a couple of pictures from our ceremony.

Just follow Yehudit's system..."

David and Carla [Groom and Bride]
Guadalajara, Mexico